As ever, your article is filled with hope and actionable advice, Jacquline.

I know several people (and was myself) incapable of conceiving their value apart from their doing. That's why this question of "what do you want to be" is so stressful to some, because they believe they have to do in order to be. And if they don't do the right thing they won't be who they are supposed to be. Thanks for untangling the doing and the being!